Entering a romantic relationship, each of us has unique needs and desires. That is also the root cause of trouble, controversy or blame: they do not understand themselves. This article hopes to bring more tools to help you understand the needs of yourself and the other person better.

In all human relationships, feeling loved is perhaps the first and most important need. However, how to make the other person feel loved or yourself feel loved is another matter, because each person feels love in many different ways and dimensions. According to Gary Chapman, the identified the famous "5 love languages":

Speaking words of love

For many people, a compliment, a sweet word will be seen as "flattering" or "cheesy", but some others see it as a "vitamin" filled with love. Words of affirmation in relationships have potential to bring positive spirituaal values, helping the listener to be appreciated and feel valued..

Caring Gestures

According to Gary Chapman, he calls this "Acts of Service" - It's what you can do to show you care and make the other person happy. Sometimes you don't need to do big things, but just small actions that show the observance and sophistication that you have for your loved one.

Quality interval

&quot;Quality&quot; time is when both of you are really focused on each other, it can be just 5 minutes, 10 minutes, it really doesn&#39;t matter how much time you spend together. But you really do give all your love, to listen and to spend time with each other.

Touch

It could be a handshake, a hug or a good morning kiss. Physical touch is the most basic form of communication. Communicating through touch makes you and the other person feel a variety of emotions that sometimes don&#39;t need words.

Gift giving

Gifts show that you always think of and appreciate the other person, it also symbolizes your presence, clearly demonstrating the care you give to the person you love. Understand the five love languages, so you can better understand your needs and your partner&#39;s needs, limit arguments (or at least argue more effectively), love language as a catalyst important for maintaining and developing relationships. For example, when you know that you and your partner both feel love by spending time together, you both understand the importance of scheduling time to strengthen your relationship.

In addition, when staying in a relationship for a long time, couples easily fall into the comfort zone and gradually become boring. But a bright spot when understanding each other&#39;s love language, the two of you can actively warm up your feelings and &quot;upgrade&quot; the experience for the relationship. In the end , love language certainly isn&#39;t the answer to all couples&#39; problems. But this will be the right tool to understand your own needs, the needs of the other person and nurture the connection in the emotional relationship. Reference: According to PsychologyToday, Reading Station

5 Love Languages - How do you want to be loved?

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